Quiet that relentless inner critic.
Life is hard when we feel small.
When you have low self-esteem, you know the profound impact it has on your life, extending beyond mere feelings of unhappiness. It prevents you from fully engaging socially, taking risks, and pursuing meaningful connections. When we fail to appreciate ourselves, we inadvertently neglect to safeguard our hearts and bodies, making us vulnerable to harm from others or even from within.
Imposter syndrome isn't an actual illness or diagnosis; it's a common experience among high-achievers who feel like frauds and attribute their success to luck. In spite of ample evidence of your success as a student or professional, you might struggle with fully embracing your achievements. The more success you experience, the more you feel you don’t belong. You fear exposure. You never feel good enough, leading to stress, burnout, procrastination, and the pursuit of perfectionism. While societal factors may contribute, we also can become our own oppressors, keeping ourselves small and doubting our worthiness to claim our rightful place at the table.
It’s not enough to only love your shiny parts. The goal is to respect yourself, wholeheartedly, warts and all. In other words, love yourself in spite of your problems, mistakes, and failures. I’ll guide you to discover confidence and boldness: confidence in your ability to handle your problems and the boldness to be authentically you. I can help you experience life in a new way. Move from feeling insecure and dreading your future to feeling empowered, claiming your space in this world, and excited about your life.
Does this sound like you?
Highly self-critical and preoccupied with negative thoughts about yourself
Feel deeply insecure, incompetent and inadequate despite your accomplishments
Seek validation from others
Quickly identify your flaws but have difficulty acknowledging things you like about yourself
Frequently compare yourself to others and feel you don’t measure up
People pleaser and/or a perfectionist
Can’t let go of your mistakes or failures and have a chronic fear of failing
Avoid doing things that make you feel vulnerable (public speaking, asking someone out, going out, talking to strangers)
Don’t feel deserving or capable of having more
Frequently feel like you don’t belong
Therapy for self-esteem and imposter syndrome can help you…
Feel more confident in social, school and work settings
Reduce the drive to compare yourself to others
Overcome the feeling of “I don’t belong here”
Find peace in imperfection (yes, really)
Develop healthier connections to others
Provide yourself with validation rather than seek it from others
Reduce stress and burnout
Develop the self-respect & appreciation required for a fulfilling life
Enjoy your own company
Life becomes peaceful when we are not at war with ourselves.
Commonly asked questions about Therapy for Self-Esteem/Imposter Syndrome
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Therapy for low self-esteem or imposter syndrome provides a safe and confidential space to explore and address the self-defeating thoughts and beliefs that contribute to self-doubt. Through an intentional process of subtracting your harmful and limiting attitudes and beliefs, we create space for perspectives that align with the truth of who you are. I’ll help you to shed the weight of imposter feelings, leading to healthier habits, positive growth, and lasting change. Experience the liberation that comes when you can embrace your unique talents, accomplishments, and worthiness, laying the groundwork for a more fulfilling and authentic life.
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Some indicators include: persistent negative self-perception, fear of being exposed as a fraud, impaired self-confidence, difficulty internalizing achievements, emotional distress and self-criticism. These experiences impact your relationship, work, and overall well-being.
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1. Head over to my contact page and complete the form: Provide your basic information and share a brief overview of your situation. This helps me understand your initial needs and how I can best support you.
2. Receive a scheduling link: Once you've submitted the form, I will email you a link to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation call at a time that works best for you.
3. Connect for a consultation call: During the call, we'll discuss your concerns and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is also an opportunity for you to ask any questions you may have about the therapy process. If we determine that we are a good fit, we’ll proceed with scheduling your therapy sessions and set you on the path to progress.
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